39 Sexy Songs to Add to Your Sex Playlist

Getty Images | Arturo Holmes
Getty Images | Arturo Holmes

When you're looking to set the mood without the fire hazard of candles or the clutter of rose petals, few things are more effective than a well-curated sex playlist. Regardless of your relationship to music, the emotional and psychological impact that sexy songs can have on your libido shouldn't be underestimated. Even for those people who don't consider themselves all that rhythmic, the best sex music can get you out of your head and into your body (especially the sexual pleasure that's overtaking it). Whatever type of sex is in your future — whether it's infused with kink or BDSM, or it's sweet and vanilla — queueing up some of the best sex songs from this list can help keep you in the moment longer and maybe even unleash a side of you that you didn't previously know existed.

Plenty of people have trouble finding a "rhythm" during sex, and can sometimes feel shy, clumsy, or unfocused without some background accompaniment. Music — especially a sex playlist compiled of songs at various tempos and with various themes, and songs that make you feel confident — can help. For something dynamic and animalistic, try some Chappell Roan or Billie Eilish. For slow, intimate sex, try a sensual ballad from someone like Omar Apollo or Marvin Gaye.

Whatever pace or vibe you're going for, we've put together a list of the best sex songs to add to your sex playlist. All that's left now is to press play.

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"Red Wine Supernova" by Chappell Roan

One of the sexiest (and most fun) songs of the last year, Chappell Roan's "Red Wine Supernova" deserves a number one spot in your sex playlist. Roan sings about attraction and desire in this upbeat-yet-romantic banger that will have you and your partner belting along while you're going at it.

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"Water" by Tyla

In this sexy song with an infectious beat, South African pop star Tyla sings "Make me sweat, make me hotter / Make me lose my breath, make me water." Who could say no to that?

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"Replay" by Tems

With one of the most unique voices of this generation, Tems's sensual jams are totally impossible resist. Get this scorching bop on your sex playlist immediately.

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"Toro" by Remi Wolf

A ridiculously fun song about a scream-worthy hotel room orgy, sung by one of the most sultry and silly singers making music today?! Get it in your sex rotation ASAP.

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"3 Boys" by Omar Apollo

Soft, slow, and tender, this intimate crooner from Omar Appollo belongs on your sex playlist for those moments when you're craving some deep connection.

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"Kill Bill (Acoustic)" by SZA

All versions of this song are fantastic, but the stripped-down, acoustic version is so undeniably sultry — and SZA's raspy voice is so sexy — that you almost forget this song is about cold-blooded murder.

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"Mystery" by Raveena

Raveena's ethereal tunes are mystical and delicious and perfect for those sex sessions when you desire something sweet and connected.

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"Every Other Freckle" by Alt J

A little dark, a little unexpected, this banger from Alt J belongs on the sex playlist of anyone who wants to get a little frisky and freaky. "Devour me"? Yes, please.

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"Guess featuring billie eilish" by Charli XCX and Billie Eilish

This song will make you sweat, and not just because it's upbeat. There was a reason the internet freaked out when Billie sang, "Charli likes boys but she knows I'd hit it"!

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"One of Your Girls" by Troye Sivan

This song is a little on the slow side — perfect for an intentional, confident, intimacy-building eye contact moment — while still feeling more horny than sappy.

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"So Hot You're Hurting My Feelings" by Caroline Polachek

Hot! Girl! Anthem! This sexy song is all about yearning and fantasizing and admiring someone's banana. Enough said.

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"Lemon Pepper Wet" by Tempest

This spicy tune is all about the double entendre. (And if it doesn't make you hungry it will certainly make you horny.) Add to sex playlist immediately.

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"Picture You" by Chappell Roan

One of the most underrated tunes on "Midwest Princess," this Chappell anthem is oozing with sexuality and tension.

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"Issues/Hold On" by Teyana Taylor

This sultry masterpiece will have you climbing each other like you're trees. File this under sex music that isn't explicitly sex music but will definitely have you wanting sex.

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"Haute" by Janelle Monáe

This whole album is so blindingly horny it's almost too hot to listen to if you're not having sex. (Almost.)

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"Cosmic" by Amber Mark

Soft and sweet is the name of the game with this sexy song from Amber Mark and her angelic pipes.

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"Rush" by Troye Sivan

Your sex playlist deserves another sexy song off this album because who can resist Troye when he's feeling some type of way? This bop belongs in the club and in your bedroom.

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"Adorn" by Miguel

Any sex playlist is incomplete without at least one luscious Miguel tune to set the mood.

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"All Night" by Beyoncé

Queen B exudes confidence, passion, and style — all feelings you want to emulate in the bedroom.

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"All the Time" by Jeremih feat. Lil Wayne and Natasha Mosley

If you're looking for a sex song that's super on the nose, this song isn't afraid to say what we're all thinking.

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"Best I Ever Had" by Drake

Something about this song evokes simpler times. A little nostalgic, a little playful, this all-time Drake banger belongs on your sex playlist.

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"Body" by Summer Walker

A sexy groove for a sexy mood, Summer Walker's steamy anthem will perfectly set any vibe.

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"Bouncin" by Tinashe

Sometimes you just need to lay down a beat that will will get you laid. Tinashe hits the nail on the head with this upbeat-but-sensual song.

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"Call Out My Name" by The Weeknd

Sometimes there's nothing more romantic than a solid slow jam, and The Weeknd is full of them. Add this to your sensual, slow sex playlist for sweet, connected moments.

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"Careless Love" by Croquet Club

Vibey, frisky, and smooth, this bop will turn up the heat in any room.

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"Cold Sweat" by Tinashe

Is there anyone making music right now who oozes more raw sexuality than Tinashe? Her discography is basically a sex playlist in itself, and "Cold Sweat" is no different.

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"Don't" by Bryson Tiller

In this underrated sex song, Bryson Tiller gives us a strong beat (perfect for grinding), a silky voice, and yearning lyrics. The perfect addition to any sexy playlist.

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"Fade Into You" by Mazzy Star

This one goes out to all the indie romantics who see stars in their lovers' eyes. A classic slow jam that's melty and gooey in all the right ways.

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"God Is a Woman" by Ariana Grande

In case your partners need a reminder about who's in charge, Ari is here to set things straight! File this sexy song away for your dom/sub power play moments.

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"Good Kisser" by Usher

No one in their right mind would complain about a little Usher on the sex playlist. Hit play and let the man go to work.

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"Let's Get It On" by Marvin Gaye

Ah, yes. The reigning champion of sex playlists since before playlists were even a thing. This 1973 hit remains a sexy go-to decades after its release not only because of its horny message but because Marvin Gaye's voice is just too irresistible.

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"Love Me Like You Do" by Ellie Goulding

Swelling with emotion, this sexy song will keep the romance alive all night.

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"Pony" by Ginuwine

Every sex playlist needs at least one great stripping song!

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"Rocket" by Beyoncé

This whole album is so horny, you almost can't miss. But "Rocket" has the perfect mix of tempos and rhythms to keep you and your partners in the zone.

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"Sex With Me" by Rihanna

Some sex songs just go ahead and say the quiet part out loud. Rihanna has no shortage of sexy anthems that belong on a sex playlist, but this one might just take the cake.

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"Streets" by Doja Cat

Sharp beats paired with soft vocals? That's a perfect sex song right there.

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"Thinkin Bout You" by Frank Ocean

Frank Ocean did for the introspective, naval-gazers among us what Neil Armstrong did for astronauts. When this song comes on, the clothes come off.

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"Wild Side" by Normani feat. Cardi B

The song itself is sexy enough, but if you want to incorporate some extra foreplay, the music video is blush-level hot. Channel Normani's smooth, confident musicality into your sex moves and you'll be driving your partners absolutely wild.

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"Woman" by Harry Styles

There's a sweetness to Harry Styles's sex appeal that makes his music perfect for an intimate sex playlist.


Macy Cate Williams is a former content director of commerce at PS. She literally shops for a living! Based in the Bay Area, Macy finds the best fashion, beauty, fitness, and home products that readers should know about.